Imagine we were having a conversation and I said, “It’s a new year and it still feels like December.” I’m guessing you would say something like, “I get it. It’s okay if it doesn’t feel new yet. There’s no right or wrong way to feel about a new year.”

I might say, “My tree is still up and my house is a mess.” You would say, “Be kind to yourself, friend, it’s okay if it’s not all done yet. There isn’t a deadline you have to meet.”

I might say, “I’m overwhelmed at the thought of all this year might hold. It feels so out of my control.” You might say, “Oh friend, I understand.  The unknown future can feel so uncertain.” You might also say, “I’m learning to trust the unknown to our known God.” 

It’s easier to respond to a friend with gentleness than it is to ourselves.  Include yourself in the kindness you offer to others. 

Can I remind you:

• Be kind to yourself.
• Speak graciously to yourself.  
• Let the truth of Christ settle on you like a warm blanket. 
• Know that there is no condemnation for those that are in Christ.  

May this year be the year that you lean into truth over condemnation. 

Happy Dec-anuary, from a half decorated, holiday home loving, work-in-progress friend.