Lets make your event the best yet!
How do you get the right speaker?
As a recovering people pleaser, I know women in your audience are battling an inner critic. It often whispers they’re:
- not enough,
- too much, or
- disqualified from God’s best.
- They need to encounter the God who sees them, knows them, and loves them deeply—and that’s exactly what I bring.
Your women will leave feeling freer because they are seen, known, and deeply loved.
I’m based in Bakersfield, right in California’s Central Valley, but I love hitting the road (yellow boots and all) to speak wherever God opens the door.
Let’s talk about your event soon!.
Watch Carol’s messages to see her blend authentic storytelling and biblical truth to help women Recognize, Root out, and Rewrite the inner critic’s lies with the truth of God’s word.
Speaking Topics
Freedom from the Inner Critic – Recognize, Root Out, and Rewrite the Inner Voice with Truth
Seen, Known and Loved by God Who Created You (and Why It Makes All the Difference)
Additional topics include retreat series, women of the Bible, and seasonal messages.
Contact me to discuss what would best serve your group.
What Others Are Saying
It filled my cup! Carol and all the ladies created such a beautiful Christ-filled evening, while holding space for all those moms there AND encouraging them, myself included. Truly wonderful. My anxiety and the devil’s lies almost kept me from going. I’m so glad I fought through. God made it clear to me that I needed to be there.
Katie Elliott, Relatable Moms Tour, Attendee
The most meaningful thing for me, when Carol spoke, was how much she encouraged us to stop “shoulding” ourselves, but instead to give ourselves grace! To be a mom of a little one (preschool age) comes with so many challenges! After Carol spoke, our group felt refreshed and inspired to think positively after hearing her message.
If you want someone to brighten up the room and give you the motivation to be more optimistic then book Carol! She’s wise, encouraging, and fun! A true blessing.
Haley Patty, Mommy & Me Ministry
Carol Feil is genuine, forthright, relatable, hospitable; and humorous! As a Lay Pastoral Counselor at our Church, she may undertake tough, heart-wrenching cases, but you can still hear occasional laughter coming from the Counseling Room. The joy of the Lord is contagious when you hang with Carol! We recently invited her to help train others in a Sunday afternoon seminar, knowing we could count on Carol to speak up, speak out, offer practical advice and best practice skills, all while truly connecting with her audience. She’s an overcomer of her own life-struggles and no stranger to the diligent work of growing in the Lord. Carol is easy to work with, reliable, creative, professional. You’re going to love Carol!
Debbie Allen, Director of Counseling & Support Ministries
Carol Feil is a truly delightful, wise, and winning speaker. Due to all of her years of women’s ministry, she is a dream to work with because she makes your event easy; she is prepared, connective, and a dream to serve alongside. She makes it easy for event planners and organizers. Due to her many years of speaking, she does an amazing job connecting with an audience, praying for the success of the event, and adding levity to everything she is involved in. Due to her many years of being a devoted follower of Christ, she speaks with authority and candor. I highly recommend Carol Feil.
Amberly Neese – Speaker, Author, Comedian, and Founder of the Relatable Moms Tour
As a christian speaker and faith mentor, I’m passionate about helping women quiet that persistent inner voice that never seems satisfied. You know the one – that relentless critic whispering “you should be doing more, being more, having it all figured out.” I’ve walked this road myself, and here’s what I’ve discovered: our loving God wants to meet us right in those challenging moments with His freedom-giving truth.
- I believe God’s love drowns out our inner critic’s harsh accusations.
- I believe God’s presence fills the lonely spaces our inner critic creates.
- I believe God’s truth can transform our inner critic’s demanding “shoulds” into His grace-filled “coulds.”
These truths fuel my passion for speaking! Every woman needs to know she can win this battle, silence those lies, and step into the beautiful freedom Jesus offers.
I’m in Bakersfield, California, but I love hitting the road to speak wherever God opens the door.
Planning a retreat?
Consider a meaningful & encouraging weekend focused on:
Silencing the Inner Critic – Walking in God’s Freedom
There’s something powerful about getting away from our everyday routines to focus on God’s truth. Away from the usual “not-enoughs” and expectations, women can hear His voice more clearly. I love creating retreat experiences where women can breathe deeply, connect authentically, and discover practical tools for silencing that inner critic – all while enjoying nature, thoughtful conversations, tasty food (prepared by someone else!), and plenty of laughter and connection.
I would love to partner with you to create a retreat that serves your women well with love, grace, and lasting transformation.
Need an emcee?
When your event runs smoothly, attendees can concentrate on the message, and you can concentrate on enjoying the event.
Consider the benefit of these emcee roles:
~Crowd Connector, helps get your audience interacting with one another, bringing humor and levity that aligns with your event, increasing attendees overall enjoyment.
~ Schedule Keeper makes sure your event runs smoothly from start to finish, working with the tech team and speakers, so you don’t have to worry about the timing details.
I would love to partner with you to create an environment at your next event that serves your attendees well.
Carol Feil emceed for West Coast Christian Writers Conference and she was exceptional, her natural energy and positivity creating a genuine connection with our audience. Her natural stage presence, ability to engage audiences, and willingness to assist beyond her role make her invaluable. Carol’s warmth and huge smile made each person feel welcome.
Susy Flory
Director of West Coast Christian Writers Conference
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